{"id":7137,"date":"2012-11-30T16:23:43","date_gmt":"2012-11-30T07:23:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.btbpress.com\/?p=7137"},"modified":"2012-11-30T16:23:43","modified_gmt":"2012-11-30T07:23:43","slug":"sorry-i-was-drunk-feedback","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.btbpress.com\/ja\/sorry-i-was-drunk-feedback\/","title":{"rendered":"Sorry, I was drunk (Feedback)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Thank you for your contributions to a very lively discussion, and thank you YU for posing an interesting question that made everyone think.<\/p>\n<p>From your comments, it seems that there is a kind of culture of forgiving people for bad behaviour when they are drunk in Japan, especially in relation to &#8220;office parties.&#8221; <!--more--> I think that attitudes are gradually changing, but it seems to me that Japanese people still drink much more than they should. I asked a class of students the other day how many of their fathers drank every night after they came home from work. Practically all of them raised their hands. I&#8217;m not sure what the safe limits for alcohol are, but I know that you definitely should not drink every day. <\/p>\n<p>Here is some feedback on your comments. <\/p>\n<p>I think people are 100% responsible for their actions whether they are drunk or not.<br \/>\n<strong>Nice sentence.<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nThis is really disgusting and I don\u2019t think the excuse is accepted at all!<br \/>\n<strong>&#8230; and I don&#8217;t think this excuse should be accepted at all.<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nApparently, \u201cbeing drunk\u201d is divided into 3 types(\u5358\u7d14\u3001\u8907\u96d1\u3001\u75c5\u7684\u9169\u914a) in the Japanese justice system<br \/>\n<strong>Nice sentence. You could also say, &#8220;Under Japanese law, being &#8216;drunk&#8217; is&#8230;&#8221;<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nOf course,, this kind of behavior should not be allowed whether it\u2019s a crime or not,&#8230;<br \/>\n<strong>A good word to use here would be &#8216;tolerated&#8217; &#8211; &#8220;This kind of behaviour should not be tolerated&#8230;&#8221;<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nBy the way, when I think about these being-drunk-crimes(I\u2019m not sure about this expression),<br \/>\n<strong>Maybe &#8220;alcohol-related crimes&#8221;?<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nWe should control ourself.<br \/>\n<strong>We should control ourselves.<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nIf you still believe it and do something stupid like sexual harrasment, you are just an outdated, foolish person.<br \/>\n<strong>I&#8217;m afraid there are still a lot of those around!<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nDon\u2019t they really remember anything?<br \/>\n<strong>Do they really not remember anything?<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nPlease don\u2019t ask me because I don\u2019t drink much.<br \/>\n<strong>You could also say, &#8220;I can&#8217;t help you there because&#8230;&#8221;<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nIn fact, I have a very low tolerance of alcohol. When<br \/>\n<strong>In fact, I get drunk very easily. \/ I can&#8217;t drink very much. (A-Z: alcohol)<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nI\u2019ve finally realized that not being able to handle my alcohol tolerance was heredity.<br \/>\n<strong>&#8230; was hereditary.<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nIf it offended you, I\u2019m sorry.<br \/>\n<strong>It didn&#8217;t offend me! Thanks for sharing your story.<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nKimi, thanks for sharing your stories! Why should we hate you???<br \/>\n<strong>Why <em>would<\/em> we hate you???<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nOnce her dad came home drank, he peed after he opened the door of the closet.<br \/>\n<strong>I heard a worse story than that. One of my friend&#8217;s told me that her husband had opened a drawer and was squatting over it! I&#8217;ll leave the rest to your imagination!<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nDoes people sleep with someone unconsciously when they are drunk?<br \/>\n<strong>I&#8217;m sure most of you know this, but just in case some of you don&#8217;t, &#8220;sleep with&#8221; is a euphemism for &#8220;have sex with.&#8221;<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nGiven that this is true, we certainly should change our English education, but I don\u2019t know if it\u2019s a matter of \u201cstarting time\u201d or \u201cquality of English education\u201d.<br \/>\n<strong>It&#8217;s actually a matter of three big problems:<br \/>\n1. Far too many students in a class.<br \/>\n2. Nowhere near enough hours of study.<br \/>\n3. A focus on strange and unnatural English for the purposes for entrance exams.<br \/>\nStarting the students earlier will not make a difference, I&#8217;m afraid.<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nWhich is better?<br \/>\n1. He was dead drunk.<br \/>\n2. He was sober.<br \/>\n<strong>Which would be better?<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nYou know what, every time I tell my family name(it\u2019s one of typical Okinawan names) or where I am from, most of the people say to me \u201cYou must be a big drinker\u201d or \u201cYou like drinking.&#8221;<br \/>\n<strong>I get the same thing being from Wales!<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\n&#8230;to excuse for their bad behavior.<br \/>\n<strong>&#8230;to excuse their bad behavior.<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nI think Japanese people get drunk and become violent, too.<br \/>\n<strong>Not on the scale that British people do, I can assure you! Or not in public, at any rate.<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nI found afresh there are many incidents caused by alcohol in Japan\u2026<br \/>\n<strong>It opened my eyes to how many incidents are caused by alcohol in Japan&#8230;.\/ It made me realise how many incidents&#8230;.<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nYou\u2019re a really hard worker Kimi. I think your name should be published on the \u201cpractice test\u201d as the supervising editor!<br \/>\n<strong>I agree! Thanks for all your help. I really appreciate it.<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nBy the way, does \u201cYou speak for yourself!\u201d mean\u300c\u52dd\u624b\u306b\u8a00\u3063\u3066\u308d\u300d?<br \/>\n<strong>It means &#8220;That is just <em>your<\/em> opinion! I don&#8217;t agree.&#8221;<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\n&#8230;but my husband drinks everyday.<br \/>\n<strong>&#8230;but my husband drinks every day. (A-Z: everyday)<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nWell, let me share one story what happened to me.<br \/>\n<strong>Let me share one story about something that happened to me.<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\n1.Some students tend to think studying abroad is an end in itself, not a means to an end. Students should not be satisfied with that.<br \/>\n<strong>Nice sentence.<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\n2.He wanted to start a business, so living on one thousand yen a day was a means to an end. He didn\u2019t feel unhappy about bearing enough to live on.<br \/>\n<strong>The first sentence is okay. The second should be &#8220;Living on such a tight budget didn&#8217;t bother him.&#8221;<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\n1. We asked a constructor to give us a ballpark figure for how much it would cost to renovate our kitchen and bathroom.\uff08<br \/>\n<strong>Nice example.<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nI think it doesn\u2019t differ so much from the way you do!<br \/>\n<strong>Really? I think it is far less common for people to invite their friends to their houses in Japan. This is one of the things I miss about Britain.<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nMen often can sleep with women who are not his type at all when they are really drunk. Don\u2019t you think so?<br \/>\n<strong>I don&#8217;t want to upset any wives, but I&#8217;m afraid that is true whether we are drunk or not!<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nHave a great weekend, and see you again with a new topic on Monday.<br \/>\n<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Thank you for your contributions to a ve&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9,10],"tags":[],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.btbpress.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7137"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.btbpress.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.btbpress.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.btbpress.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.btbpress.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7137"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.btbpress.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7137\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.btbpress.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7137"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.btbpress.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7137"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.btbpress.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7137"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}